I have several problems with this. First of all, everyone involved in this believe that the children are thriving and excelling in their education via homeschool. The judge even admitted that they were, the father admitted it too.
The judge cites “socialization” and the “real world” as motivators for his decision. Obviously, this lunatic has no idea what he is talking about. Allow me to elaborate a bit on socialization.
Socialization is knowing how to act appropriately in various situations and is best taught by adults who care about the child. Socialization is not the same as having a social life. Remember this when you hear the dreaded ‘S’ word from others. Your homeschooled kids will have as many friends and activities as they want and you allow (and likely more time than their PS peers to enjoy them).
They will be socialized by their parents and other caring people who will help them learn appropriate behavior in different situations- at home, in public, in informal and formal activities. They will have many opportunities to learn and practice social skills as they will be interacting with the real world on a regular basis.” (www.about.com)
Let’s remember what the article said about these socialized lacking children, “…the children routinely had been testing at up to two years above their grade level, were involved in swim team and other activities and events outside their home and had taken leadership roles in history club events.” It sounds like they have been anti-social to me, not!
According to L.M. Rudner, he discovered that nearly 25% of homeschooled students were enrolled one or more grades above those of the same age enrolled in traditional schools. Even with a conservative analysis of the data, the achievement levels of the home school students in the study were exceptional. By the time home school students are in 8th grade, they are typically four years ahead of their public/private school counterparts.
Cloud also discovered that homeschoolers also did quite well in 1998 on the ACT and SAT college entrance examinations: “They had an average ACT composite score of 22.8, which is .38 standard deviations above the national ACT average of 21.0. This places the average home school student in the 65th percentile of all ACT test takers. The average SAT score for homeschoolers in 2000 was 1100, compared with 1019 for the general population”
Another argument in favor of homeschooling is that most children learn at different paces. A child who is a quick study can easily become bored by the lesson plan that accounts for the rest of the classroom in the student body. This boredom can be perceived as manifestations of behavioral issues and children who really do not need to be on medications end up on them. My friend Rachel homeschools her children for this very reason. Ethan was reading well ahead of all other children his age. His speed of learning would have resulted in his boredom and so she decided it best to educate him from home, where he has subsequently excelled in academics.
Personally, I feel a very strong need as a parent to protect and shelter my children from influences that I find contrary to our belief and value systems. I realize that as they grow and mature, they will have to come face to face with questionable situations. It is my hope, however, that, by sheltering them or, at the very least, educating them that they will be better equipped to function properly when confronted with the situation.
According to Dr. Gordon Neufeld, a leading developmental psychologist, “traditional schooled peer interaction has become more of a problem than an asset. Instead of peer interaction facilitating the process of socialization, it is now more likely to lead to the premature replacement of adults by peers in the life of a child. Such children become peer-oriented rather than adult-oriented and are more difficult to parent and teach. Furthermore, peer-oriented children fail to mature psychologically and their integration into adult society is compromised” (Neufeld). A parent who is truly interested in his child's education and not just kicking against the system, can easily find ways to give his child the socialization skills that will make him a better member of society.
In 1992, Stough’s research looked particularly at socialization, comparing 30 home-schooling families and 32 conventionally schooling families, families with children 7-14 years of age.
The researcher found no difference in the self-concept of children in the two groups. “According to the findings, children who were schooled at home ‘gained the necessary skills, knowledge, and attitudes needed to function in society...at a rate similar to that of conventionally schooled children.’ Stough maintains that ‘insofar as self-concept is a reflector of socialization, it would appear that few home-schooled children are socially deprived, and that there may be sufficient evidence to indicate that some home-schooled children have a higher self concept than conventionally schooled children”
Taylor, in 1987, did a similar study employing what many consider today as being “the most validated self-concept scales available” (Taylor). Taylor randomly sampled 45,000 home-schooled children and found “that half of these children scored at or above the 91st percentile—47% higher than the average, conventionally schooled child” (Taylor). His conclusion? “Since self concept is considered to be a basic dynamic of positive sociability, this answers the often heard skepticism suggesting that homeschoolers are inferior in socialization”
Homeschooled children have most all of the same socialization opportunities available to the traditionally schooled child and perhaps with a lot less peer pressure. Home economics is a class taught by schools, which would seemingly not be necessary for the homeschooled student since they spend the largest portion of their day with the mother at home (usually). Communities often have sports opportunities available through parks departments. Clubs abound, and some include Boy/Girl Scouts of America, Explorers, Civil Air Patrol, ROTC, 4-H, community choruses and bands, etc. Many communities have various different homeschooling associations and plan field trips and play dates.
Webb, who is one of only a few researchers to have examined aspects of the adult lives of homeschooled people “found that all who had attempted higher education were successful and that their socialization was often better than that of their schooled peers”
Colleges are beginning to seek out homeschoolers. One such school is Kennesaw State University in Georgia (Cloud). Smith and Skikkink discovered that “parents who homeschool their children are more likely to vote, contribute money to political causes, contact elected officials about their views, attend public meetings or rallies, or join community and volunteer associations” (Smith, Christian, and Sikkink).
Homeschooling no longer holds the social stigma it once did. All of the evidence overwhelmingly proves that homeschooled children not only excel, but also do so exponentially. If we are to believe the data, than it is no longer feasible to argue that children who are homeschooled are socially inept.
So, I've demonstrated via the scientific research that has been done, that in fact colleges seek out homeschooled students. That students who are homeschooled excel exponentially in every category including socialization and we've determined that the kids in this particular case are doing exceptionally as well.
That makes it very clear then that this is really an attack on the mother and homeschooling and religion by a renegade judge. The father, who is responsible for breaking up this family because of his extramarital affair, has even stated that the kids are doing superior. Despite all of the judges reasoning and the evidence to the contrary, this judge has acted against the will of the mother and her best judgment for the children and removed her rights. A mother the judge, himself, has said Ms. Mills had done a good job [in homeschooling]," he said. "It was great for them to have that access, and [I had] no problems with homeschooling."
Why order this mother, who everyone agrees is a good mother, to undergo a psychiatric exam? Did she commit adultery and break up this family? I would think that the one with the deviant behavior should undergo the scrutiny of mental health examinations.
Get ready people. With Obama and the Liberals at the helm, there is much more of this non-sense to come. Christian's, pro-family, pro-moral and value programs, individual liberty to live their faith out loud is going to come under fire more and more.
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